人与人之间需要理解。理解,是人际交往的最基本的纽带,同时也是一种不易达到的至高的境界。 什么是理解?《现代汉语词典》解作:“懂;了解。”《人学词典》释为:“主体通过信息把握客体的一种思维心理过程和状态。……是主体所达到的在一定层次上把握和再现客体的形式。” 从人与人的交往看,理解是主体对客体的了解,并且这种了解应得到作为客体的人的认可。 具体说来,尊重别人的独特 People need to understand. Understanding, is the most basic link of interpersonal communication, but also a difficult to reach the highest state. What is Understanding? “Modern Chinese Dictionary” solution: “Understand; Understand.” “Humanities Dictionary” is interpreted as: “The subject through the information to grasp the object of a mental process and state ... ... is the subject of a certain Grasp and reproduce the form of objects at the level. ”From the point of view of human beings, understanding is the subject’s understanding of the object, and such understanding should be recognized by the object as the object. In particular, respect others’ uniqueness