朋友拉我去看书法展,我不去。朋友说认识某某书法家,可帮我求幅字。我说:“我不要。真要字,还不如您给我写几张。”朋友拗不过我,自己去看了,后来却对我说:“你不去是对的。所谓‘无佛处称尊’耳。”朋友的感慨,需要解释一下。这句话出处在赵孟頫。赵孟頫在鲜于枢去世后,称赞鲜于枢草书比自己写得好,说:“余与伯机 My friend pulled me to calligraphy exhibition, I do not go. Friends know some calligrapher, can help me find the word. I said: ”I do not want to really want the word, not as good as you give me to write a few. “ Friends can not beat me, I went to see, and later said to me: ”You do not go right. Buddha Department said respect ’ear.’ “Friends of emotion, need to explain. This sentence originated in Zhao Mengfu. After the death of Xiangyu Shu, Zhao Mengfu praised him that he was better at writing than himself and said: ”