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美国心理学家帕蒂·惠芙乐在《倾听孩子》一书中提到“任何孩子非正常行为的背后都有个合理的原因作为支撑”。究竟为什么现在的孩子在幼儿园里爱哭闹、爱与别的小朋友闹矛盾呢?我想这与现在的社会环境是密不可分的。当今时代的孩子们基本都是家庭中的独生子女,他们不仅有着父母无微不至的关心,爷爷奶奶加倍疼爱,对孩子更是有求必应,无论大事小事,总不让孩子插手。有些力所能及的事情,也舍不得让孩子自己去做。因此,无论是作为一名教师或是家长我们都应该及时了解孩子身上的问题,给予疏导,为幼儿良好的心理发展创造环境和条件。
American psychologist Patti Huffle mentioned in his book “Listening to Children” that “there is a reasonable reason behind any child’s abnormal behavior as a support.” After all, why is it that children now love to cry in kindergarten and love conflicts with other children? I think this is inseparable from the current social environment. Today’s children are basically the only children in the family, they not only have the meticulous care of parents, grandparents more love, more responsiveness to children, regardless of major and minor things, always let the children intervene. Something within its reach, but also reluctant to let the children do it. Therefore, no matter as a teacher or a parent, we should keep abreast of the problems of the children and give them guidance so as to create the environment and conditions for the children’s good psychological development.