这是作家叶兆言的女儿叶子在出国留学前留给父母的日记。正如作家在为此所写的后记中所说,日记“不仅是写给我们看的,也适合其他父母,日记中流露的其实代表了一大批孩子的心声”,“它有助于我们了解自己的孩子,解除两代人之间可能会有的那些隔膜”,正因为女儿的日记,使作家反躬自问:身为父母,自己所谓的“那些本能的爱,已经畸形,却忽视了一个最简单的事实,这就是女儿已长大”,“父母的爱可能有时很自私,因为自私,会走向反面。会泥沙俱下,充满杂质,而孩子的爱是一股清澈的泉水,透明,纯净,美好,更接近爱的本义”。下面选登6篇叶子的日记。 This is the diary leaves of the leaves of the daughter of the writer Ye Zhaoyan before going abroad for study. As the writer put it in his postscript, the diary “is not only for us to read but also for other parents. The diary actually represents the voices of a large group of children.” “It helps us to understand ourselves. Of children, lifting the possible separation between the two generations. ”Because of his daughter’s diary, the writer turns himself to the question: as parents, what he calls“ those instinctive love has become deformity and has neglected one of the most The simple fact that this is the daughter has grown up, ”“ parental love may sometimes be selfish, because selfish, will go to the negative. Will be all over the country, full of impurities, and the child’s love is a clear spring, transparent, pure, beautiful , Closer to the original meaning of love ”. Selected below 6 leaves diary.