谈到期望,我们总是习惯性地想到家长对孩子们的种种美好愿望。其实,任何事情都是双向的。承载着家长种种期望的孩子们,同样对家长抱着种种(孩子们习惯地称之为N种)期望。最近,笔者参加了豫北某市家庭教育协会举办的一个中学生座谈会,座谈的主题就是“对父母的N种期望”。座谈会 When it comes to expectations, we always think of the good wishes of parents for their children. In fact, anything is two-way. The children who bear the expectation of their parents also hold the same expectations (parents habitually call them N) of their parents. Recently, I participated in a middle school student symposium organized by a certain family education association in the north of Henan Province. The topic of the symposium was “N expectation of parents”. forum