从小,妈妈就教我要懂得“给予”。在待人接物上,妈妈总说:“你去别人家,不能空着手,要有所准备,不要让人觉得你想占别人什么便宜。”我一直照做,保持着礼数和周到。我先生是荷兰人。结婚后,我发现先生受的“给予”教育,和我的有些不同。先生的父母对他说:“给予的前提,是要发现他人的需求以及身边的美好。就算空着手,也不能空着心。给予,并不局限于物质的东西,分享美感,表达体谅,也是‘给予’。”我先生儿时,除了用零花钱给人买礼物,还有很多奇思妙想的给予:路边采摘的一束野花、背诵的一首美丽诗词、表演的舞蹈、自制的卡 As a child, my mother taught me to understand “give ”. In dealing with people, the mother always said: “You go to someone else’s home, can not be empty hands, be prepared, do not make people think you want to take advantage of what others cheap. ” I have been doing, to maintain etiquette and thoughtful. My husband is Dutch. After getting married, I found that sir was “given” education somewhat different from mine. His parents said to him: “The prerequisite given is to find out the needs of others and the good around him, even if the empty hands, can not be empty-hearted. Giving, not limited to material things, to share the beauty, expression of understanding, Is also ’give’. ”" My husband was a child, in addition to pocket money to buy gifts, there are many wonderful ideas to give: a bunch of wild flowers picked by the roadside, recite a beautiful poetry, performance dance, Homemade card