有人说小男孩和大人的对话是现实主义和浪漫主义的极妙的对比,我不同意这种看法。救鱼儿的小男孩和不救鱼儿的大人都在表现同一个人性本质——行为的动机。其实我们大多数人做一件事的最初动机并非考虑这件事有多大意义,而是欲望。就如同有食欲一样,我们有爱人的欲望和被爱的欲望,在欲望的控制下我们常常会做一些毫无意义的傻事,明知是傻事,但偏偏要去做。这本来就没有什么道理,只是为了心安:爱 Some people say that the dialogue between young boys and adults is a wonderful contrast between realism and romanticism. I disagree with this view. The little boy who saves the fish and the adult who does not save the fish are all showing the same nature of sex—the motive of the behavior. In fact, the primary motive for most of us to do one thing is not to consider how significant it is, but desire. Just like there is appetite, we have the desire to love and the desire to be loved. Under the control of desire, we often do some meaningless stupid things. If we know that it is stupid, we must do it. There is no reason for this, just for peace of mind: love