李奕推荐:在幼儿园门口与儿子分别时,我有时也会说“玩得开心啊!”但说“好儿子,再见!表现好点儿”的频率要高得多。当儿子犯了错误、出了问题时,尽管我默念着“成长源自经验”提醒自己理智处理,儿子仍能敏感地察觉到我认为犯错误很糟糕的负面态度,变得有些畏首畏尾。这本书中的一条条鲜活,明确的 Li Yi Recommended: At the kindergarten entrance and son, respectively, I sometimes say “Have fun! ” But said “Good son, goodbye! Better performance ” The frequency is much higher. When my son made a mistake and something went wrong, even though I silently remembered “growing from experience ” to remind myself to be rational, my son could still sensitively perceive the negative attitudes that I think make bad mistakes and become daunting. One of the passages in this book is fresh and clear