有个寓言,说一只小猴子,肚皮有一天被树枝划伤了,流了很多血。它见到别的猴子,就扒开伤口说,你看我的伤口,好痛。每个看见它伤口的猴子都安慰它,同情它,告知它不同的治疗方法。但它还是不停地给别的猴子看伤口,不停地听取意见。最后,小猴子因细菌感染死掉了。老猴子得知它死亡的消息,对别的小猴子说,记住,它不是因为受伤而死的,它是自伤而死的。的确,如果小猴子一开始就处理好自己的伤口,而不 There is a fable that a little monkey, the belly was scratched one day branches, shed a lot of blood. When it saw other monkeys, it said, "You look at my wounds and hurts. Every monkey that sees its wound comforts it, sympathizes with it, and tells it about different treatments. But it still kept watching other monkeys wounds, kept listening to opinions. Finally, the baby died of bacterial infection. The old monkey learns about the news of its death, saying to other little monkeys, remember that it did not die because of injury, it died of a wound. Indeed, if the young monkey handles his wounds from the very beginning, not