研究发现:随着学生年龄的增加,年的家长们越来越强调孩子要具有好、竞争、开放的个性倾向;而如果自己向、害羞,则认为是需要改变的弱点。和传统文化观念中重视含蓄、内敛,避个性张扬的倾向相反。其原因,主要由于我国经济发展突飞猛进,社会竞争也越来越激烈,从而影响了家长们的 The study found that with the increase of the students’ ages, the parents in the year pay more and more attention to the children’s personality tendency of being good, competitive and open. If they are shy towards themselves, they think they are the weak points that need to be changed. Contrary to the tendency of emphasizing implicitness, introversion, and avoidance of individuality in traditional cultural concepts. The reason for this is mainly due to the rapid economic development in our country and the increasingly fierce social competition, which affects the parents’