在瑞士,父母为了不让孩了成为无能之辈,从小就着力培养孩子自食其力的精神。比如,十六七岁的姑娘,从初中一毕业就去一家有教养的人家当一年左右的女佣,上午劳动,下午上学。这样做,一方面可以锻炼孩子的劳动能力,体会独 In Switzerland, parents tried their best to cultivate children’s self-reliant spirit in order to prevent children from becoming incompetent. For example, a 16-year-old girl graduated from junior high school and went to a well-educated family as a maid for about a year, working in the morning and going to school in the afternoon. In doing so, on the one hand, we can exercise our children’s ability to work and experience independence