一位平时快快活活的朋友从加州给我打电话,说今天心情很烂,昨晚做了一个恶梦,得癌症,医生说已经扩散到了心脏。我听了后哈哈一笑:没有听说心脏长癌的。然后我一本正经地说,你可能是日子舒服得太乏味,没有什么可操心的,想一些东西来折磨自己。她说,是的。来美国读书时忧虑考试,刚工作时没有安全感,还操心绿卡,现在都转美国公民了,工作这些年也建立了职业信心,积累了一定的金钱。前两年对自己的工作还有热情,现在没有了,一想到今后十年还要做这个工作,就不寒而栗。这位朋友是药厂的质量工程师,薪水不薄,房子也买下了。我说,你这个情绪有普遍性。新移民者的 A usually lively and happy friend called me from California and said I feel bad today. I had a nightmare last night and got cancer. The doctor said it has spread to the heart. I heard a smile: I did not hear the heart of cancer. Then I said solemnly, you may be too comfortable on the day, nothing to worry about, want something to torture yourself. She said yes. When I came to the United States to study, I was worried about examinations. I just felt insecure when I was working. I also worried about the green card. Now I turn to American citizens. During these years, I also set up professional confidence and accumulated a certain amount of money. There was still so much enthusiasm for my work in the past two years. Now it is no longer a shame when I think about the need to do this work in the next ten years. The friend is a quality engineer in a pharmaceutical factory, and his salary is not too low. His house was bought. I said that you have a general mood. New immigrant’s