我的女儿艾莉一星期后就要离家上大学了。她的房间里乱糟糟地堆满了购物袋，里面塞满毛毯、毛巾、牛仔裤和羊毛衫。她只字不提要走的事。我说：“我会想你的。”她瞟了我一眼，便离开了房间。还有一次，我用一种友好到连自己都感到吃惊的口吻对她说：“你认为你是随身带上你的 My daughter, Avery, is leaving home after a week. Her room was cluttered with messy shopping bags stuffed with blankets, towels, jeans and cardigans. She did not mention anything to go. I said, “I will miss you.” She glanced at me and left the room. And again, I told her in a tone of being kind and even myself, "Do you think you brought you with you