一、严厉、自主的家庭教育我是樊丽美,1961年出生于陕北核工业的军人家庭。因为父母都是军人,所以对我们也实行军事化的教育,说一不二。但是父母又是非常开明的知识分子,在家庭教育中也注重倾听我们的声音,从来不要求我们按照他们的想法做事。所以在这种家庭环境下成长,我的性格中既有军人的服从与守纪,又有自己的独立与追求。 First, the severe, independent family education I am Fan Li Mei, born in 1961 in northern Shaanxi nuclear industry military families. Because parents are military personnel, we are equally involved in the militarized education of us. But parents are very enlightened intellectuals who also pay attention to our voices in family education and never ask us to act according to their ideas. Therefore, in this kind of family environment, my character has both military obedience and discipline, as well as my own independence and pursuit.