“男孩穷着养,女孩富着养”是在中国流传很久的一句教子格言。那么,男孩为什么要“穷”养呢,对这种传统的教育理念我们该如何理解,“穷”养男孩又有何深刻的道理和内涵?这无疑是每个男孩父母应该仔细思量的事。“穷”养内涵一让男孩过点“苦日子”。优裕的物质生活和给孩子大量的金钱,是葬送孩子的第一杀手。有人戏称,孩子拥有大量的钱财,除了购回享乐、好逸恶劳、攀比之心外,还买回了囚车和监牢。经济腾飞了,腰包鼓起来的家长们将钱用在培养子女上,这本无可厚非,可以给他们创造良好的学习条件、环境,但绝不能给他们太过奢侈的物质享受。要不然,就把钱存起来,等儿子长大,有了正常的金钱观后再给他也不迟。为了儿子的积极奋进,为了儿子养成 “Boys are poorly-fed and girls are rich” is a long-aphoric maxim used in China. So why do boys need to be “poor”? How should we understand this traditional educational concept? What is the profound meaning and connotation of “poor” boys? This is undoubtedly that every boy’s parents should be careful Thinking things. “Poor ” to support the connotation of a boy too “bitter day ”. Ample material life and give children a lot of money, is the first killer to ruin their children. Someone joked that children have a lot of money, in addition to the purchase of pleasure, indolence, comparisons heart, but also bought a prison van and prison. Economic growth, the pockets of bulging parents will spend money on raising children, this is understandable, can give them to create good learning conditions and environment, but must not give them too extravagant material enjoyment. Otherwise, put up the money, wait for his son to grow up, with a normal view of money and then give him no later. In order to son’s active and progressive, in order to develop his son