西方人有“Terrible Two”的说法,意思是“可怕的两岁”。之所以说这个年龄的孩子可怕,是因为他们在这时开始表现出与过去不同的特征:非常难缠,喜欢跟大人作对,凡事都有叛逆倾向。因此,也有幼教专家把此阶段称为“人生第一青春期”。一个带孩子很有经验的邻居老太太说过这样一句话:“小孩子长到和桌子一样高 Westerners have ”Terrible Two “ argument, meaning ”terrible two years old.“ The reason why children of this age are terrible is that they began to show different characteristics from the past at this time: very tough, like to oppose adults, everything has treason tendency. Therefore, there are also preschool education experts who call this stage ”the first adolescent of life.“ An old lady with a very experienced neighbor said: ”Children grow as tall as the table