由于种种复杂的社会原因和心理原因,人们往往不愿、或不习惯把自己内心的意思直接说出来,常常是含蓄的委婉的转个弯儿说出来。还有一些话,甚至不是用语言“说”出来,而是用眼睛、脸部表情、身体动作“做”出来。即使做子女的(特别是较大的孩子或内向的孩子)对于自己的父母也常常如此。这就要求做父母的不仅要能够倾听子女“说”了什么,尤 Due to various complicated social and psychological reasons, people often do not want to, or are not accustomed to say their own inner meaning directly, often subtle euphemism turning point to say it. Still others do not even say it in words, but “do it” with eyes, facial expressions and body movements. Even children (especially larger children or introverted children) are often the case for their parents. This requires parents not only to be able to listen to their children, “said” what, especially