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父母无疑是爱孩子的。但由于工作繁忙或一些不经意的言行,却可能无意中伤了孩子的心。挑拨式。“爷爷奶奶不疼你,以后少去他们家,只有妈妈最疼你!”“你爸老出差,都不陪你玩。”有些父母喜欢把婆媳矛盾、夫妻矛盾的战火引到孩子身上,,这样会扭曲孩子的价值观。依靠式。“儿子,你就是妈妈的依靠,妈妈的后半生全指望你了。”健康的依恋关系是孩子心理健康的基石。但如果母亲过分依恋儿子,丈夫反倒成了外人,会使孩子“取代”父亲的角色,对未来的婚恋、
Parents undoubtedly love children. However, due to busy work or some casual behavior, it may inadvertently hurt the child’s heart. Stroke style. “” “Your dad old business, do not accompany you to play. ” Some parents like the conflict between mother and daughter, the conflict between husband and wife led to Children, this will distort the child’s values. Rely on style. “Son, you are the mother rely on, the latter half of my mother count on you. ” Healthy attachment is the cornerstone of children’s mental health. However, if the mother is excessively attached to her son, her husband turns into an outsider who will make the child “replace” the father’s role in the future of marriage,