乐乐和许多孩子一样,有一些“任性”的行为,比如,挑食、不爱吃青椒、晚上不肯睡觉等等。妈妈知道,二三岁孩子的“任性”是出于他们不懂得“为什么”。虽然,大人也给他们讲一些道理,但孩子实际上是不理解的,或者是一知半解的。比如,一位妈妈教育三岁的女儿“自己的事情要自己做”,但当妈妈叫女儿帮自己拿鞋子的时候,女儿的回答是“妈妈,你不是说自己的事情要自己做吗?你也要自己拿鞋子”,说得妈妈哭笑不得。其实,年幼孩子的良好行为培养,是从做事开始的,而不必一定对他讲许 Lele and many children, there are some “capricious” behavior, such as picky eaters, do not eat green peppers, refused to sleep at night and so on. Mom knows that the “caprice” of 23-year-olds is out of “why” they do not understand. Although adults also tell them some truth, but the child is actually not understood, or infrequently understood. For example, a mother educates her three-year-old daughter “to do her own thing”, but when the mother calls her daughter to take her own shoes, the daughter’s answer is “Mom, are not you saying that you have to do your own thing? Have to take your own shoes, ”put it mum dumbfounding. In fact, young children’s good behavior training is from the beginning, but do not have to say to him