创造一种“听的气氛”。让十几岁的孩子坐下来谈，很不自然。要创造一种自然氛围和孩子们保留特定的时间，晚饭是分享家庭时光的重要机会，但往往被忽略。父母对孩子每晚所讲的内容很感兴趣，孩子就会觉得有种被尊敬的感受。学习“平行交谈”的艺术。当你在忙时，留意一下孩子 Create a “listening atmosphere.” It’s not natural for teenage children to sit down and talk. To create a natural atmosphere and keep children for a specific time, dinner is an important opportunity to share family time, but often overlooked. Parents are interested in what children say about each night, and children feel a sense of being respected. Learn the art of “parallel conversation.” When you are busy, pay attention to the children