市场竞争不断造就出一个又一个成功人士。他们收入丰厚、衣着讲究、交际广泛、风度高雅,令人羡慕。现实中有不少人和家庭正是以他们为楷模、以他们的生活模式作为自己的奋斗目标。然而在这些时代“宠儿”或商战英雄中,很多人并不象人们所想象的那么幸福。他们不但有一般人所共有的烦恼,而且还有成功人士所特有的“不幸”,因此心理负荷远比常人要重。若不是以财富的多少、地位的高低为标准,而是以生活或生 Market competition continue to create one after another successful people. They are well-paid, well-dressed, sociable, elegant and enviable. In fact, many people and families precisely take them as models and take their life style as their goal. However, in these days “darling” or war hero, many people are not as happy as people think. They not only have the common people’s troubles, but also have the unique “unfortunate” of successful people, so the psychological burden is far heavier than that of ordinary people. If not to the amount of wealth, the level of status as the standard, but to live or life