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孩子跌倒了,要不要把他扶起来?这是近些年来教育界经常谈论的一个话题,观点似乎比较一致:孩子跌倒了,家长不要心太软,马上去把他扶起来,而要求孩子自己爬起来。一些年轻的父母对此深信不疑,理由是这样做可以培养孩子经受挫折的能力。我以为,这种观点是片面的。应当承认,重视培养孩子经受挫折的能力是对的,通过这种教养方式进行培养也是可行的。但是,具体情况要具体分析。如果不管孩子年龄大小、身体强弱,也不管孩子跌倒后是否摔伤以及受伤的程度等
This is a topic often discussed by the education circles in recent years. The views seem to be more consistent: when a child falls down, parents should not be too soft and help them to get up immediately and ask their children to climb on their own stand up. Some young parents are convinced that the reason is that doing so can develop children’s ability to withstand setbacks. I think this view is one-sided. It should be acknowledged that it is right to attach importance to cultivating children’s ability to withstand setbacks. It is also feasible to cultivate them through this mode of parenting. However, the specific circumstances to be specific analysis. Regardless of the child’s age, physical strength, regardless of whether the child falls and falls, etc.