和一些妈妈们聊天,经常会听到一些抱怨的声音,说自己的孩子在幼儿园里受了欺负,受到了不公平的对待啦,或者是夸耀自己孩子多聪明灵巧,别的孩子相比之下是多么差劲啦,等等。 有时候,我会问她们:在要求别人对自己孩子公平对待的时候,你能做到对别的孩子一视同仁吗?你能做到像看待自己的孩子一样看待别人的孩子,像欣赏自己孩子一样欣赏别人的孩子吗? 其实,不管是自家的孩子,别家的孩子,他们都是天使。 Chatting with some mothers often hear some complaining voices, saying that their children were bullied in kindergarten, unfairly treated, or that their children are clever and clever, compared to other children How bad it is, wait. Sometimes I ask them: can you do the same for other children when they ask others to be fair to their children? You can do as well as others about your children Appreciate other children? In fact, whether it is their own children, other children’s home, they are angels.