德汉抱怨语的性别语用对比研究表明,较之于男性,女性抱怨较多,且喜欢使用间接抱怨方式,口气比较委婉,通常就事论事,抱怨内容比较具体和琐碎,不会过于抽象和宽泛,并且善于倾听对方的抱怨,富有同情心,态度积极,善解人意,有时甚至委曲求全,常常通过主动回应来维系和谐的交际氛围,表现出对对方的理解与尊重,这与男女两性的女性性别原型及其交际风格有密切相关。 Compared with men, women complain more, and prefer to use indirect complaints, the tone is more euphemism, usually matter of fact, complain about the content more specific and trivial, not too abstract and broad, And is good at listening to each other’s complaints, sympathetic, positive attitude, understanding, and sometimes even perfect, often through active response to maintain a harmonious atmosphere of communication, showing each other’s understanding and respect, and gender of women and men of gender stereotypes And its communicative style is closely related.