大凡读过《红楼梦》、了解林黛玉其人的,可能都不会否认,如果林黛玉生活在今天,那末,凭她的一曲《葬花词》,肯定能成为一个出类拔萃的大学生、有成就的女学者。然而走到现实生活中去作一了解,在有所成就的女性中,又有几个是属于林黛玉型(即抑郁型气质)的呢?为了印证这个感觉,我又看了许多现代、当代的女性名人传记,确乎属于“林黛玉”型的很少,而凡有所成就的女性又大都带有点所谓男子汉的风度,如富有进取心、极强的自信心、勇敢、坚韧、开朗、作风泼辣等,人们给这类女性冠之以“女强人”的称号,其中居里夫人、撒切尔夫人是突出的典例。有的人可能原来还有点黛玉的多愁善感,到后来也被其它特征所取代了。 Often read the “Dream of Red Mansions” to understand the people of Lin Daiyu may not be denied that if Lin Daiyu living in today, then, with her song “funeral words” will certainly be able to become an outstanding college students, successful women scholar. However, going to real life to make an understanding, among the accomplished women, how many belong to the Lin Daiyu type (that is, depression-type temperament)? To prove this feeling, I also read many modern and contemporary Female celebrity biography does belong to the “Lin Daiyu” type is very small, and where the achievements of women are mostly with the so-called manly demeanor, such as aggressive, strong self-confidence, courageous, tenacious, cheerful, punctual style , These women were given the title of “strongwoman”, of which Mrs. Curie and Mrs Thatcher are outstanding examples. Some people may still have some sad sentimentality, and later replaced by other features.