在北京文坛上,同我交往的一些年长者,我视为前辈或兄长,在他们面前总有点拘束感;而一批年轻的作家,或不算年轻但总比我年轻的作家,不少是听过我的课的,尊称我为“老师”,总要保持点“师道尊严”吧,也不好同他们随便开玩笑的,只有像韩静霆这样小我几岁称之为“韩老弟”的作家,可以称兄道弟,也可以随便说点不着边际的话,交往起来总有一种轻松 In the Beijing literary arena, some of the older people who deal with me, as seniors or elders, always have a sense of restraint in front of them. A group of young writers, or young, younger but better younger writers I have heard of my class, respecting me as a “teacher”, always keep a point “teacher dignity” it, not easy to joke with them casually, only as young as Han Jingtzu call my “Korean brother” Of writers, can be called brothers, you can also just say no words, there is always a relaxed interaction