我常常真诚地注视一些长相“困难”的女孩,目光里写着善意的肯定与鼓励,著名美女作家林那北(北北)曾开玩笑说,我这是“眼睛扶贫”!男人可以为女人做许多事,比如开门、让座、抱孩子等,但还有一项,就是用眼睛赞美。看美女是天性,但看平庸女子则是涵养,而且是充满怜惜、诚恳地“看”!曾见过一个衣着破烂的外地人,正在地上捡别人丢掉的半筐烂苹 I often sincerely look at some looks “difficult ” girl, the eyes of the written affirmation and encouragement of goodwill, the famous beauty writer Linda North (North and South) had joked that I am Can do a lot of things for women, such as open the door, seat, hold a child, but there is one, is to use eye praise. Look beauty is nature, but to see the mediocre woman is conservation, but also full of pity, sincerely “Look ”! Have seen a junk foreigner, is picking the others lost on the ground half a basket of rotten apple