评论——别人不靠你活着,何况你未必了解他的全部,论人长短不如取人之长,补己之短。责怪——责怪人人都会,却无法改变现状。共勉,之所以好过责怪,在于既提高了自己,也欢喜了大家。担忧——准备不足或者无力改变时才会担忧,前者需要行动,后者需要放下。 Comments - others do not rely on you to live, not to mention you may not know all of him, the length of people as taking advantage of others, make up for the short. Blame - blame everyone will, but can not change the status quo. Mutual encouragement, the reason better than blame, is that both improve themselves, but also happy everyone. Worries - Worries about inadequate or inability to change, the former need action, the latter need to be set aside.