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人的敏感是人体机能的良好反映,是生理健康的标志,但过于敏感却是一种扭曲的心理表现。尤其在生活中,频繁地「过敏」会令人生厌。夫妻之间,「过敏」现象在举手投足、一言一行中都有可能发生,比如,妻子精心打扮,而丈夫却不屑一顾,妻子会认为丈夫不爱她了,丈夫回家晚了或夜不归宿,妻子会怀疑丈夫有了外遇……这种过于敏感的心理,会直接影响夫妻感情。过于敏感的人精神总是高度紧张,凭自己的想象去理解周围的人和事,没有任何理由和根据在捕风捉影。有一点不如意就胡思乱想,把一些普通朋友都当成「情敌」来处理,这样只会导致家庭不睦、感情危机。
Human sensitivity is a good reflection of human function, is a sign of physical health, but too sensitive is a distorted mental performance. Especially in life, frequent allergies can be annoying. Between husband and wife, the phenomenon of “allergy” may occur in every gesture and behavior. For example, his wife is well-dressed and her husband disdains. His wife will think her husband does not love her. When her husband comes home late or late At the end of his life, his wife would suspect that her husband had an affair ... This over-sensitive psychology would directly affect the feelings of the couple. People who are overly sensitive are always extremely nervous and understand the people and things around them with their own imagination. There is no reason or basis for catching a shadow on the wind. A little unhappy on cranky, some ordinary friends as “rival” to deal with, it will only lead to family discord, emotional crisis.