好久没有见着老友了,甚是怀念。于是,约了她在 KFC 相见。相见的一刹那,固然兴奋,固然欣喜。却全然少了一份怀念时的朦胧,怀念时的美丽。怀念,则可以理想化。我们犯不着急于把对方与心目中的原型作比较,而可以把对方任意修改,任意描摹。相见,却有点残酷。撇开现实不谈,当我们发现相见的感觉竟与原型有很大差别时,我们便会产生一种失落感。时过境迁人亦变。10年后,沧桑未变的或许只有记忆中的他,照此说来,相见 Long time no old friend was seen, it was even missed. So she met her at the KFC. The moment of meeting, while excited, is delighted. However, she completely lost her nostalgia and remembered her beauty. If you miss it, you can idealize it. We are not in a hurry to compare the other party with the archetype in mind, and we can arbitrarily modify and arbitrarily describe the other party. It’s cruel to meet each other. When we realize that the feeling of meeting is very different from the prototype, we will have a sense of loss. Time passes and people change. 10 years later, perhaps the only person who has not changed his life is the one in his memory.