●教育孩子，对孩子提要求，夫妻应保持一致，防止孩子“钻空子”。●要对孩子采取某项奖惩措施，事先，夫妻双方应先商量。有分歧尽量私下解决，不要当着孩子争论或争吵。即使对配偶的做法不满，也要向孩子解释母亲或父亲是有一定道理的，切忌当众相互指责。●不要背着配偶擅 ● educate children, ask the children, the couple should be consistent to prevent the child “loopholes.” ● To take some rewards and punishment measures for children, in advance, the couple should first consult. Disagree try to be privately resolved, do not argue or quarrel with children. Even if the dissatisfaction with the spouse’s practice, but also to explain to the child the mother or father is a certain truth, should not be publicly accusatory. ● Do not carry a spouse good