每一名学生及其生活都是独特。他们都有属于自己的内部世界和外部环境,教师、家长都无法真正代替和完全帮助,他们的生活必须自己面对,因此,需要我们教会孩子独立面对生活和解决生活问题的思路和办法。在长期的班主任工作中,我总结出了几个有助于学生成长的思维范式。一、发展性思维范式——“敞现、交流、辨析、提升”案例:一天,女生A把原本是好朋友的女生B的英语书扔到厕所里了。我与A交流,她说和B确实发生了很多矛盾,而 Every student and his life is unique. All of them have their own internal world and external environment. Teachers and parents can not truly replace themselves and help them completely. Their lives must be confronted by themselves. Therefore, we need our own ways and means of teaching our children to live independently and solve their problems of life. In the long class teacher work, I summed up several paradigms that help students grow. First, the development of the paradigm of thinking - “open, exchange, discrimination, enhance ” Case: One day, girls A had a good friend of girl B’s English book thrown into the toilet. I communicate with A, she said, and B did a lot of contradictions, however