有两个孩子,参加了一次考试,一个孩子考了100分,得到了一个吻;一个孩子考了55分,挨了一巴掌。还是这两个孩子,又参加了一次考试,上次考了100分的孩子,这次考了98分,挨了一巴掌;上次考了55分的孩子,这次考了61分,得了一个吻。这是一幅漫画告诉我们的现象。很显然,吻就是奖赏,巴掌就是批评。有的人会说,这家长未免也太看重分数了,孩子 There are two children, took an exam, a child took a 100 test, got a kiss; a child took a 55 test, slapped. Or these two children, also participated in an examination, the last test of 100 children, the test of 98 points, slapped; the last test of 55 points of children, the test of 61 points, won a kiss. This is a comic tell us the phenomenon. Obviously, kiss is a reward, slap in the face of criticism. Some people will say that this parent is too value-oriented too, children