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在由夫妻及两个孩子构成的四口之家中,爸爸妈妈是最重要的双边关系,儿女总会率先跟父母有着亲密和良性的沟通。父母应该利用与儿女的亲密关系,搭建老大、老二之间的桥梁。作为二宝的新生儿的出现,如果真的彻底改变了之前的家庭秩序的话,再“懂事”的孩子也会觉得郁闷和不平。二宝出生后,最大也是最直接的变化就是妈妈与老大相处的时间少了。与之相对应的是老大业已形成的三餐就餐时间、睡觉时间、亲子故事时间等等基于亲子相处时间的习惯受到了很大的冲击。
In a family of four with a couple and two children, Mom and Dad are the most important bilateral relationships, and children and children always take the lead in communicating with their parents intimate and benign. Parents should take advantage of the close relationship with their children to build a bridge between the eldest and the second child. The emergence of a newborn as a treasure, if it really changed the order before the family, then “naive ” children will feel depressed and uneven. After the birth of Treasure, the biggest and most direct change is the less time for mom to get along with the boss. Corresponding to the boss has formed three meals, dining time, sleeping time, parent-child story time and so on based on parent-child time habits have been a great impact.