来访者W是一个20多岁的男孩子,有着阳光的笑容,礼貌的谈吐。他很认真地诉说他的烦恼:“在跟别人沟通的时候,我关注的重点都是别人的看法。我会不停地去想我这样说别人会怎么看我?别人的笑是欣赏还是嘲讽?跟别人相处的时候会下意识地客气友好,但是却很难觉察自己真实的情绪,我只会担忧别人会不会觉得我无聊,无话可说。”听他说完后,我忍不住问他:“你眼中那么多‘别人’,自己在哪里?” Visitor W is a boy in his 20s with a smile of sunshine and polite conversation. He was very serious about his troubles: “When I was communicating with others, my focus was on the opinions of others. I will keep thinking about me, saying how others would think of me? Do people laugh or not? Taunt? When people get along with others subconsciously polite friendly, but it is difficult to detect their true emotions, I will only worry about other people will not think I am boring, nothing to say. ”“ After listening to him, I tolerate Can not help but ask him: ”So many people in your eyes, where are you?"