在家庭教育中,正确地运用鼓励方法,可以对孩子产生巨大的精神力量。但要掌握鼓励艺术,使之符合孩子的心理特征。有些家长在运用鼓励手段时常常走入误区,如用金钱作为鼓励孩子学习的手段,与孩子订立“合同”,考试成绩达到多少分,给多少零花钱等。这些鼓励手段可能一时有些成效,但难以 In family education, the correct use of methods of encouragement can have tremendous spiritual power for children. But to master the encouragement of art to make it consistent with the child’s psychological characteristics. Some parents often use the encouragement means to go wrong, such as using money as a means of encouraging their children to learn, signing a contract with their children, how much the exam scores, and how much pocket money they spend. These incentives may be somewhat effective, but difficult