每个孩子在成长的过程中,都要经过无数次的摔跤,才能学会走路。要孩子不摔跤是不可能的。问题是父母怎样对待孩子的摔跤。笔者曾从两个孩子摔跤的反应中,发现了摔跤的“学问”。一个女孩已1岁8个月,会独自行走,但经常摔跤。她摔跤时两手缩在身旁,身体很快失去平衡,往往头部先碰到地上,发出“咚”的响声,接着她就闭上眼睛,大哭大叫,躺在地上不起来。妈妈听到女儿的哭声,惊慌失措,赶快跑过去抱起抚慰,并敲击地板,责怪地板不好,于是女孩停止哭闹,也用小手拍打地板,错 Every child in the process of growing up, have to go through numerous wrestling in order to learn to walk. It is impossible for children not to wrestle. The question is how parents treat children’s wrestling. I have wrestled from the reaction of two children, wrestling found “learning ”. A girl has been 1 year and 8 months old and will walk alone but often wrestles. When she wrestled, her hands shrank beside her and her body soon became unbalanced. Often the head first hit the ground and made a sound of “boom”. Then she closed her eyes and cried, lying on the ground. Mother heard the cry of her daughter, panicked, ran quickly picked up soothe, and percussion floor, blame the floor is not good, so the girl stopped crying, also beat the floor with a small hand, wrong