指挥使孩子感到烦恼,家长越想指挥,孩子们变得越具有反抗性。诚恳的请求带来了合作和奉献。当我们把孩子当成宝贵财富而不是一件物品,请求他们参与,而不是指挥要求他们干这、干那,孩子们会感受到鼓励的。这样,帮忙做事将是发自内心,干完之后会有一种轻松愉快的感觉。 Directing the child to feel upset, parents want to command more and children become more resistant. Sincere requests have brought cooperation and dedication. When we treat our children as precious wealth rather than an item, ask them to participate instead of directing them to do this, and then the children will feel encouraged. In this way, helping to do things will be from the heart, after doing so there will be a relaxed feeling.