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管教孩子,远比管他们吃穿要难得多。上海社科院青少年研究所所长杨雄说,针对管教孩子的每个方面都应出一本书,这样可以指导家长针对不同的孩子、不同的情况进行教育。不过,在众多的教育细节中,有八个“工具”是无论哪个家长都必须具备的。无条件的爱父母是爱孩子的,且这种爱不附加任何条件。这种爱可以让孩子变得越来越自信,并且学会爱他人。家长要让孩子知道,无论长相美丑,学习成绩好坏,父母对他的爱都不会改变。杨雄强调,无条件的爱不等于无约束的溺爱,尤其放纵型的溺爱是极不可取的。
It is much more difficult to discipline children than to eat or wear them. Yang Xiong, director of the Youth Research Institute at the Shanghai Academy of Social Sciences, said that a book should be issued for every aspect of discipline of children so that they can guide their parents to educate their children and situations. However, among the many educational details, eight are “tools” that no matter which parents need. Unconditional Love Parents love children, and this love does not attach any conditions. This love can make children more confident and learn to love others. Parents want their children to know that no matter how beautiful or ugly their grades are, their parents’ love for him will not change. Yang Xiong stressed that unconditional love does not mean unconstrained doting, especially indulgence of doting is highly undesirable.