朋友有时会以这样的方式试探我:“有件事情不知应不应该对你说。”我一听,就知道是电视上的台词“不知有句话当讲不当讲”。接下来对上的台词是“请讲”或“我不会介意的”。但我不喜这样的接头方式。一听话头不对,我便说:“不听。”但是,对方并不买账。既然起了这个话头,他是不会把嘴边的话活生生地吞回去的。在几经铺垫之后,他还是把事情跟我说了。我就知道,没什么好事。听了之后,好心情顿时没了。有很多东西,说出来是无关痛痒的。说出之后非但不能改变现实,反而给人凭空添乱。比如,有人在背后 Sometimes friends try me in such a way: “Something I do not know should not tell you. ” I heard, I know the lines on television “I do not know when there is something wrong to speak.” The next line is “Please talk ” or “I do not mind ”. But I do not like this way of connector. Hear, I said: “Do not listen.” However, the other party does not buy it. Since the beginning of this talk, he will not swallow his mouth alive to go. After several bedding, he still told me the thing. I know, nothing good. After listening, a good mood suddenly gone. There are many things to say it is irrelevant. After speaking out, not only can not change the reality, but gives people extranodal chaos. For example, someone is behind