记得有这么一幅画,一个小学生拿着一张得了二分的考试卷子走进家门,全家人谁都不理他,只有他的好朋友——一只狗亲昵地扑在他的身上。画面的意思是说,孩子考试成绩不好,父母拉着脸,以此来激发孩子的上进心。然而如果只停留在这一步,不仅起不到激励的作用,反而会伤害孩子的自尊心,使 I remember having such a picture, a primary school student got a dichotomous examination paper into the house, the whole family who ignore him, only his good friend - a dog intimately flapping on him. The meaning of the screen is that children’s exam results are not good, parents took the face, in order to stimulate the child’s ambition. However, if only staying at this step, not only can not achieve the role of motivation, it will hurt the child’s self-esteem so that