电话里是一个男人的声音,这在妇女热线中还是属于少数。他讲了自己的苦恼: 我不算是一个很成功的男人,因为我都四十五岁了,没挣到什么钱也没当上什么官。婚姻也就是那么回事,妻子在一所学校教书,我们的感情很平淡,她除了有时抱怨我说,跟我那么多年没有让她过上好日子之外,基本上没有什么大的摩擦。 人们似乎都觉得只有有钱人才会有外遇,但没想到 The voice of a man on the phone is still a minority in the women’s hotline. He talked about his distress: I am not a very successful man, because I am forty-five years old, did not earn any money nor did any official. Marriage is the same thing. His wife taught in a school. Our feelings are very plain. She has little or no friction apart from sometimes complaining about me saying that I have not had a good life with me for so many years. People seem to think that only wealthy people will have an affair, but did not expect