婚姻中天花板效应:如果我们把对爱与对爱人的要求设到有天花板那么高,让对方怎么也够不着,那么最后,他(她)就不会再努力了。白熙什么都好,只是过于追求完美。这一点柯静与他结婚前就知道,但当时她不觉得这是缺点,相反,她以为这正好说明白熙是个认真的、追求高品质生活的人。如果将婚姻比作人生路携手同行的 The Ceiling Effect in Marriage: If we set the demands on love and lover as high as ceilings and let each other out of reach, then in the end, he or she will no longer work hard. White Hee, everything is good, just over the pursuit of perfection. This point Ke Jing know before he married, but at the time she did not think this is a disadvantage, on the contrary, she thought this just shows that Bai Xi is a serious, high quality of life pursuit of people. If the marriage than life path to go hand in hand