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罗马著名的许愿池前,来的人都会许下愿望:一、找到真爱;二、永久地拥有真爱。1爱是否让两性关系保持长久?最初的相互吸引是两性关系的原动力,这是人类进化机制的要求,目的是优化基因,确保物种的生存。但为什么有些门当户对,父母之命达成的婚姻比荷尔蒙冲动下的偶遇更稳定持久?可见,爱的发生与长久发展是两个不同的命题,“浪漫”不是稳定关系中必需的,人们往往自恃有爱情的基础,就忽略了相处中的技术性问题,这一点迷惑了很多人,尤其是女人。
Rome famous wishing pool before, people will make a wish: First, to find true love; Second, have permanent love. 1 Does love keep the relationship between men and women long? The initial mutual attraction is the driving force behind the relationship between men and women. It is a requirement of the human evolutionary mechanism to optimize genes and ensure the survival of species. However, why are we going to be well-versed and the marriage of the parents is more stable and lasting than the occasional encounter of hormones? It can be seen that the occurrence of love and the long-term development are two different propositions. “Romance” is not necessary in a stable relationship and people often The fact that there is a basis for love ignoring the technical problems of getting along with it, has confused many people, especially women.