中国人重关系,而在陌生人之间最快建立关系的就是烟和酒。这就像吸毒,一旦上了瘾那就无法回头了。当然中国人重关系重到过了头,他们一旦进入关系网便丢失了自由。教社会心理研究的屈老师是我很钦佩的学者之一,他讲授的关于中国人的社会心理课程更是让我记忆犹新。课上,屈老师讲到中国人的脸面观和人际关系研究专题时谈到,中国人重面子,也重关系。在酒桌上喝多了算 The Chinese are heavily involved, and the fastest relationship between strangers is tobacco and alcohol. It’s like taking drugs and you can not turn back when you become addicted. Of course, Chinese people have overreconducted their relations and once they lose their freedom once they enter the network of relationships. Qu teacher to teach social psychology is one of my very admired scholar, he taught the social psychology course on Chinese is even made me remember. During the class, Qu told reporters that when discussing the Chinese people’s face and interpersonal relations, the Chinese people pay more attention to face-weight than children. Drink more at the wine table