人最重要的一个本领,是有谈吐应变的能力。说话要尽量有的放矢,适时适事。无的放矢,不看对象,尽管滔滔不绝,也会令人耻笑。空空洞洞,言之无物,只会使人厌烦,不足为取。废话连篇,有百害而无一利。谈吐平庸,味如嚼蜡,不如缄默不语。智者的说话向来微言大义,有如芳醇,使人既如醉如痴、透彻心脾,又能步出迷津,豁然开朗。应当力避所答非所问、生硬穿凿、缺乏蕴意,而应当恰中要害,真切意深。 One of the most important skills of a man is his ability to covertly talk. Speak as far as possible to target, timely and appropriate. Unspecified, not looking at the object, though endless, will be ridiculed. Empty holes, nothing to say, only annoying, not enough to take. Nonsense with articles, there is no harm. Talking mediocre, taste like chewing wax, it is better not silent. Wise words have always been righteous, like mellow, people are mesmerizing, thorough heart and spleen, but also step out of the maze, suddenly. It should be avoided by answering the question, blunt chisel, lack of meaning, but should be the right key, really deep meaning.