我儿子今年16岁了,自从上高中以后,他就很少和我们交流,有什么事情也不再和我们分享,如何才能消除和孩子之间的隔阂呢?——读者贾女士不愿和家长交流,家长让往东却偏往西,孩子进入青春期,仿佛变了个人,怎样才能和叛逆期的孩子顺利交流?诀窍1当家长与孩子沟通出现问题,孩子常常闭口不语或激烈反驳,使得既定谈话中断。反过来,家长可通过观察中断的节点,来反思哪些表达方式会激起孩子的反感,从而避免沟通中断。 My son is 16 years old and he has rarely talked to us since he was in high school. What is the difference between him and us? How can we eliminate the gap between children? Exchange, parents let the east is partial to the west, the child into adolescence, as if changed individual, and how to rebellious children smooth communication? The trick 1 When parents and children communicate problems, the children often shut up or refuted fiercely, making The scheduled conversation interrupted. In turn, parents can look at the broken nodes to reflect on which expressions can arouse the child’s objections and thus avoid disrupting communications.