生活中谁都可能会遇到不适合自己心意的事,难处的事、难处的人,难处的事也是难处的人造成的。当我们遇到那些难处的人时,让我们感到烦躁不安、焦虑、气愤,甚至恼怒等不良情绪,影响我们的学习、工作和生活,因为它具有破坏性,所以又叫负性情绪。起初我们不好意思和他们争论,久之,他们得寸进尺,占尽便宜,故意欺负人,我们忍无可忍,直想教训教训对方,才 Everyone in life may encounter things that are not suitable for their own mind, difficult things, difficult people, difficult things are difficult people. When we meet those who are difficult, let us feel irritable, anxiety, anger and even negative emotions, affect our study, work and life, because it is destructive, so called negative emotions. At first, we are embarrassed to argue with them. In the long run, they have to make inroads and take advantage of everything. We deliberately bully people and we are intolerable.