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有关专家认为,掌握一些处理人际关系、调节情绪、取得对方好感与信任的心理策略,对解决家庭冲突是十分有益的。一、强调双方的共同之处。当双方有不同看法、不满或发火时,可以退让一步,表现自己对于对方的意见也有同感,肯定其可取之处。然后分析全面情况,指出这个问题(如怎样计划用钱或是否该加班而不干家务)按自己的意见办可能更好、更妥当。这种方式由于强调夫妻双方的共同点,缩短了感情距离,对方比较容易接受,容易使双方达到一致,减少磨擦。
Relevant experts believe that having some psychological strategies for handling relationships, adjusting emotions and gaining mutual favors and trusts will be very helpful in resolving family conflicts. First, emphasize the commonalities of both parties. When the two sides have different opinions, dissatisfaction or angry, they can take a step back and express their sympathy with each other’s opinions and affirm their merits. Then we analyze the overall situation and point out that this issue (such as how to plan for using money or whether to work overtime or not) should be better and better based on our own opinions. This way because of the emphasis on the common ground between husband and wife, shorten the distance of affection, the other side is relatively easy to accept, easy to make both sides reach a consensus and reduce friction.