不少教师在教育学生时,往往批评多于鼓励,甚至用一些刺激性的语言,以引起学生的重视,例如“跟你讲了多少遍,还改不了这个毛病”等等。本来教师想通过揭学生的痛处来唤醒学生,这种心情可以理解,殊不知这样做严重伤害了学生的自尊心和自信心,效果恰恰适得其 Many teachers tend to criticize students more than encouragement when they teach their students. Some teachers even use some stimulating language to arouse the attention of students, such as “how many times have you told me about this problem?” The teacher would like to wake up students by exposing the sore students, this feeling can be understood, do not know doing so seriously harms the students’ self-esteem and self-confidence, the effect is just right